Thursday, March 26, 2009

Remembering

A wise friend once told me that "there are worse things in this life than death."
I believe that to be true.
But knowing this still doesn't make death easy.
Vivian Padgett
passed away Sunday March 22, 2009
As some of you know, we just attended my mothers brother and my Uncle Wayne's funeral in Memphis the end of January. He passed on Ja. 27th. I found out this morning that his wife, my aunt Vivian died on Sunday. They had a hard time and were unable to get a hold of us until last night. She was sick and when you talked to her, all she wanted was to go on and be with her beloved Wayne. They were separated less than two months.
James E. Hill
passed away Monday, March 23, 2009
Uncle James is the husband of my Grandma Padgett's sister, Betty Valentine Turner Hill. She's always been Aunt Betty to me but she is my Great Aunt Betty.
He was a righteous man and an active lifetime member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. He served in many church positions during his life time, including president of the Atlanta Georgia temple. He was very beloved of his family and will truly be missed.
Laura Leigh Kirkland
passed away March 24, 2008
It's been a long and sad year for her family and all those of us who love her. We miss her bubbly personality so much.
Only praying that time will help to heal our broken hearts.
Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.
Of all the Beatitudes, this one appears at first glance to be the most unusual and contradictory. How can it be a blessing to be in mourning? To mourn is to show grief or pain at the death of a loved one. This intense feeling cannot be hidden from the world or from God; it cannot be eased or pacified except with comfort and consolation from God through the Holy Ghost.
So why would the Savior say that it is a blessing to mourn? It may be that pain and suffering at the death of loved ones is an essential part of our mortal experience that obliges us to face the question of the reality of the spirit world and the hope of the Resurrection. It is through suffering that we discover what is eternally important.

It might be that it is a blessing for us to become more fully aware that God’s ways are not always our ways, and that we must trust him when things don’t go as we believe they should. When we can see the Lord’s purposes fulfilled in our sorrowful moments, the Holy Ghost can console us and the Atonement and Resurrection can become the cornerstones of our faith.
(Robert E. Wells)

11 comments:

Amanda said...

Jenn had a quote that I liked on her blog the other day. It was something about life not being about waiting for the clouds to disappear but learning to dance in the rain. We've only got this one deal and we've seen that some can be shorter than others so let's live it while we've got it.

Sorry for your losses. Heart ya.

Anonymous said...

Very well said my daughter.
Love,
Papa

SusanD said...

My heart aches for you and your family at the loss of these precious people. How wonderful for Vivian to be with her beloved. Lifting you up. Blessings, SusanD

Katherine Roberts Aucoin said...

Oh Gigi I am so sorry for the tragic losses your family has had in such a short time. My thoughts and prayers go out to you.

I don't have an answer for you about the Beatitudes maybe your joy will come when you achieve your reward.

Midlife, menopause, mistakes and random stuff... said...

What a beautiful and inspiring heartfelt tribute gigi.
God bless you girl in your time of loss. You are in our prayers. There is no greater comfor than knowing that our loved ones are happy in heaven with our Lord and Saviour is there?
Take good care and.....

Steady On
Reggie Girl

Anonymous said...

Thank you for posting this. It was sad to hear about Brother Hill's passing. He was a great man and the was the one who sealed Corey and I in the temple. What a small world I did not even know he was related to you.
Karen

Celeste said...

When I lose someone close to me, the fact that their loss is painful reminds me how blessed I was to have them in my life. I'm so sorry for your losses. What a glorious resurrection reunion you will have.

Andrea said...

What a moving tribute. I'm so sorry for all of your losses...your words were absolutely beautiful and filled with such grace.

Anonymous said...

I'm sorry to read about your losses, but remember that earth no sorrow that heaven can not heal.

Mikki said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm so grateful for the gospel, while it doesn't take away the pain of losing our loved ones, it certainly gives us the well placed hope that we will see them again. Sending my love to you and your family. ♥♥

Anonymous said...

This has been a sad year for me so far having lost my dear brother Wayne and his true love Vivian in two months time, as April and September three years ago, when I lost my dear brother Don and his eternal sweetheart Julie, in just five months time. Also the past two weeks I have come close to losing my dear brother Grant who almost bled to death from a horrenous leg injury and might still lose his leg if he's isn't very careful. I know of 7 pints of blood he has received so far.

Uncle James Hill's graduation services were uplifting and joyful and gave me needed comfort. How very sweet is the peace the gospel brings.

Love, mama